Archive - Dead but Delicious

vignettes on solitude

I’ve been taking notes on solitude/aloneness/and loneliness over the last several months. There is a lot more where this came from, and maybe you will…

Mar 25, 2023 •

7:56

August 2022

a mythology of intimacy

you can’t build a family with desire alone

Aug 8, 2022 •

8:38

July 2022

i bet she has a nice scream

in praise of X, the new novel by Davey Davis

Jul 5, 2022 •

7:30

January 2022

on mourning the past

Jan 8, 2022 •

December 2021

the science of giving pain

musings on sadism

Dec 12, 2021 •

May 2021

the persistent desire

on erotic identification

May 16, 2021 •

February 2021

the commodification of kink

CW: Sexual and physical assault, and descriptions of heterosexuality. My copy of Leatherfolk edited by Mark Thompson is stained with tears, I hid my wet…

Feb 28, 2021 •

a D/s valentine

For Valentine’s Day, I want to share some thoughts about the very romantic and kinky relationship structure known as D/s!!! In the nature of…

Feb 14, 2021 •

January 2021

Jan 21, 2021 •

December 2020

don't write about age play

content warning: age play, incest play, consensual non-consent A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I were in the planning stages of a live rope event we…

Dec 27, 2020 •

November 2020

home + the philly accent

Where I’m from the word home is pronounced funny. The great Philadelphian-English dialect, as with many other words, turns it into a kind of open-jawed…

Nov 29, 2020 •

October 2020

a little blood snack

cw: needles, blood, ingesting blood Most of the world spells Sex P in V, parts rubbing together for the purpose of, biologically speaking, creating the…

Oct 10, 2020 •

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