Thank you for this! As a service-oriented submissive, some of what you say surprises me. I guess I over-romanticize Dominant personas and don’t spend much time thinking of their vulnerabilities. “Needing help” and learning to ask for help would not have occurred to me as reasons a Dominant would seek service! I always thought of Dominants as having all they need, resting in a place of power and control, and *allowing* me to assist them. This is great food for thought, thank you.
So great! I identified with the part about not being able to have needs as a child, so learning what mine are is still difficult sometimes, too. When I do identify and meet them and can then serve who I am devoted to, though, it is vvv hot and satisfying! Thank you for writing and sharing 🙏🖤
Thank you for this! As a service-oriented submissive, some of what you say surprises me. I guess I over-romanticize Dominant personas and don’t spend much time thinking of their vulnerabilities. “Needing help” and learning to ask for help would not have occurred to me as reasons a Dominant would seek service! I always thought of Dominants as having all they need, resting in a place of power and control, and *allowing* me to assist them. This is great food for thought, thank you.
So great! I identified with the part about not being able to have needs as a child, so learning what mine are is still difficult sometimes, too. When I do identify and meet them and can then serve who I am devoted to, though, it is vvv hot and satisfying! Thank you for writing and sharing 🙏🖤
This piece is so compelling to me and spoken in a way that support me with lands themes I am currently exploring. Thank you so much for sharing.