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Alex's avatar

Thank you for putting these drives and motivations for a dynamic into words. It really is a breath of fresh air to read thoughtfully-written (modern!) leatherdyke essays.

Kate's avatar

It’s so good to see your writing appear again! I missed reading your long-form writing.

Also, I was yelling “NO!!!!” when you asked yourself whether you should stop being a Daddy. You are the real deal. Looking forward to witnessing your journey to returning to yourself.

Serotonins's avatar

“attracted people who don’t know themselves enough to truly see another person clearly. The constant struggle of choosing to believe someone’s words over their actions when they don’t align is crazy-making” This really hit the spot for me

Kitt's avatar

Your writing is such a gift. Thank you for sharing this.

Cat Alvarez's avatar

this was a very on time read for me.

Macio's avatar

Why the fuck I am subscribed to this drivel lol

Nella's avatar

Also echo that it is awesome to get to read your writing again and I am very sorry about the break up ☹️. That shit sucks!! I know you've read so much about polyamory and kink. Is this a theme for other doms in a similar dynamic or your own relationship patterns that you've noticed? I hope the nasal-gazing will help make some meaning out of a painful time. 💗