the persistent desireListen now (15 min) | on erotic identification
the commodification of kinkListen now (21 min) | CW: Sexual and physical assault, and descriptions of heterosexuality. My copy of Leatherfolk edited by Mark Thompson is stained w…
a D/s valentineListen now (11 min) | For Valentine’s Day, I want to share some thoughts about the very romantic and kinky relationship structure known as D/s!!! In th…
as a treat
don't write about age playListen now (13 min) | content warning: age play, incest play, consensual non-consent A few weeks ago my girlfriend and I were in the planning stages of…
home + the philly accentWhere I’m from the word home is pronounced funny. The great Philadelphian-English dialect, as with many other words, turns it into a kind of open-jawed…
a little blood snackListen now (11 min) | cw: needles, blood, ingesting blood Most of the world spells Sex P in V, parts rubbing together for the purpose of, biologically …
future hoarding + the cult of imaginationListen now (11 min) | The following is my speech for indoctrination into my cult, so let me know if you want in :) I’ve written about imagination sever…
gossip saves livesListen now (15 min) | I’ve been saying for years that Gossip Saves Lives. I’ve already designed the t-shirt in my head—red bubbly script on a white shi…
leatherdyke gender technologyListen now (16 min) | The three most controversial books among queer community are The Argonauts, Pleasure Activism, and Conflict Is Not Abuse. In case…
dear daemonum + polyamory coaching!Listen now (10 min) | Like millions of other people, I recently lost my (vanilla corporate) job. My position was moved to part-time a few months ago an…
the daddy card - tarot + leather identityListen now (13 min) | CW: sexual violence, patriarchy play, mention of tenderqueers My first tarot deck was gifted to me by an old friend L, who was ve…